To Margaret and (Linda) concerning -Margaret's comments

Submitted by Lisa USA Wife to Moroccan (United States), May 27, 2009 at 12:27

Well Margaret, the "WOW" factor...shows you know VERY little but like always, you THINK you know it all! You claim you know so much about Islam and Moroccans but in REALITY you know very little or you would know not all families that are of the Islam culture try to control their children. His sisters are not even controlled in their decisions. The one full sister who is married now with child chose her husband and they were in a relationship before they married.......they met while in University....Morocco is not as controlling as in other countries. You don't know anything about this family. You are such an idiot and always trying to see negative in EVERYTHING. I have posted to you before about your same idiotic statements again here to Linda so allow me once again to clear the matter for you and Linda and any readers

Margaret asks "So guess who is the divorced sister with children ?" Like I stated before margaret i have seen firsthand the family's birth record and EVERY female I have met including ALL his sisters from his father's first marriage and second are listed in order of birth in this father"s record...every brother and sister including the married ones with kids and his half sisters and half brother is listed on this old worn out birth record (which we had to take with us to the Ministry Of Justice,Court of Appeal, Department of family Affairs) and I met her Ex she was trying so desperately to get back with and I also seen their old marriage photos and her kids with the dad at birth and throughout the years.....but to you Margaret, all RELATIONSHIPS are based on LIES so you have to create some Lies to try and get your point across no matter who you try to hurt... when there are proven facts to back everything up I have said. Another thing margaret, I didn't meet any wife in the magistrates office with the Abdous and a FIRST wife has to now show in person with proven identity before a Moroccan can Legally marry a second wife in accordance with the Moroccan/Muslim law. You are so smart, I thought you knew this info,lol.

Furthermore Margaret, When a Moroccan marries a Non-Muslim woman now in Morocco, a translator of your native language has to be present to witness the marriage and translate and even sign off on your marriage deed with his identity number and profession if any....My husband also had my "Deed of Marriage" translated into English for me to have which I have framed in my bedroom before I left so Immigration can have a copy cause I requested it to speed up our paperwork once I do file,

There is nothing hidden here margaret, I have seen the childhood photos and marriage photos from early ages and stages throught their lives...and the one sister you keep arguing is his wife for whatever reason (just cause she has kids and is divorcee twice actually) just cause he HAS TO HAVE A WIFE ALREADY was actually married TWICE...once to a Frenchman where she lived in France and then she married a Moroccan who decided drinking and a girlfrnd on the side was more important than her or his very own kids. They tried to reconcile but his grlfrnd is still in his life and they called it quits. She has a new boyfrnd that owns a resturaunt. They do have girl/boy friends in morocco. His brother who is 17 has a girlfriend too and all his family knows.........Some families are not as controlling as you think.

Concerning your rude statement to Linda:I will post below:One hint: the "wow" man dont want to have chidren...One more thing his religious father would never allow if that indeed was his first marriage...And you must know that is islamic culture children are controlled by their parents all their life

Margaret,I NEVER said he didn't want to have children......he would love to have children with me but I have had female surgery and can't and he is ok with this. Its one of the issues i had from the beginning and he said he may not be able to have children, we would never know this and is ok cause he said we will have my kids to fill that void and grandchildren one day.....He doesn't care if its his blood despite what you say about Islam. Another thing, Margaret even in Islam people sin.....like sex before marriage, drinking, swearing,etc.....Islam is not a flawless religion just like Christianity and other religions are not as well. People fault and ask for Forgiveness.

Drinking is forbidden in Islam but you have drinking bars right there within walking distance with muslims staggering all on the streets and is allowed..........another thing, if children including grown men or my husband since he is one you are questioning here, were controlled by his parents all his life, he would have been marrying the pharmacist -far distant cousin that the mom approached him with before i made my first trip. He told his mom about me and our plans and he loved me and is when she wanted to meet me on cam. They had their worries and concerns too about meeting someone on the internet.... His mom is a loving compassionate woman who cares deeply for her sons and all her children and their spouses too...She is not a controlling person. His father is very fine with me ands likes me more than his other son's french wife who also happened to had married a much older woman himself who I am s ure can't have kids as well but they are happy and the family gave their blessing. But in all honesty, his father would love to see me Muslim and has been the one to ask me on two occassions if I think I ever will covert......Its not out of the question...He has presented me with english translation books at my request as departing gifts both times........he smiles a lot around me and he is very ok with me and happy for his son. They have no hidden agendas.......they have a very nice $450,000 home with no intentions of leaving Morocco and Islam. I don't spend money on this family or my husband. In fact, the mom bought my dress and presented it to me for my going away present and his dad bought me another book ( Bulugh Al-Maram ATTAINMENT OF THE OBJECTIVE According to Evidence of the Ordinances) written by Muhummad bin Ismail Al-Sanani......and all his sisters and his mom (full-sisters) went in with my husband and purchased my wedding ring set as a gift to us both and actually his ring too.........I thought it was sweet. They know I am not wealthy. I have asked my Husband if he is ok with money or need me to send any and he still insists he is fine and he is now helping a friend which i met get ready for the up-coming June elections and will recieve pay from him and he has his summer work approaching.

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