yes its difficult to let go

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jun 1, 2009 at 03:01

Hi Pandora

we will look back one day when the hurt has gone and realize that we did the right thing, we are hurting now but imagine how we would of felt further down the line! we would of been with a man who we could not trust, fighting doubt all the time, wondering what they were up to behind our backs, this is no way to have a relationship and this is why we have had to end it. Lets try to look at the positives of our actions and know we are not alone in all this. Love is meant to make us happy all the time, knowing we are in a loving secure relationship and we did not feel this otherwise we would not be here discussing our issues and trying to justify if our men are good. We know deep inside that we are a stepping stone to their better life and then they would be gone like the wind so its better to fel the hurt now than be destroyed emotionally and fianancially later.

well done I wish you well

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