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Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Jun 1, 2009 at 15:49

from your experience i find myself criticising myself for being doubtful of my muslim husband. .... if you have been with this women all this time surely you know the person she is??? its a long time. but i do think that if she truely loved you no matter how long it took, how many miles are between you she wouldnot have slept with anyone else. This i could never do if i was in love , and as a christian myself it is wrong in my eyes to even contemplate it....so from my point of view no she should not put you through this..... Be it on the other foot??? ..Would she forgive You?? The question of muslim vs christian - i am trying to understand islam, and the muslim beliefs some i agree with some i dont, but i would never turn my back on christianity -i think this would show how insincere i was, but i would embrace the knowledge of islam, in prayer and respect my husbands faith. Im not sure where your relationship is leading you seem very forgiving , and if there was more men like you us women wouldnt have the problems we are having. I hope things go well for you whatever path you choose, but do not let it eat you inside so you take it out on your partner later. This seems to be a familier occurance with mixed marraiges etc.good luck .. the name hit home here..... god bless

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