To Fyldefolly

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jun 2, 2009 at 00:30

Hi Fyldefolly,

I have this feeling that he was the one who got married last March and not his sister. Anyway, this is just a feeling, no solid evidence whatsoever. Because everything just became so coincidental. Like, after his sister allegedly got married, he was not online for a week and at the same time he also changed his career from working in a tourist industry to an export industry.Well, i dont want sound judgmental to the man I truly love. I asked him if he's married, but just the same he confirmed that he's still a bachelor.

Regarding this being naughty, are you prediciting that he just waited until i get emotionally attached to him before he opened the topic again. I also asked him about this and he said, if he just wanted to play around he could just chose any girl, who is not requiring to really have a real conversation. Anyway, I am so confused right now. I would admit, that I still dont have the courage to end all of this. He said he want me to go to Egypt the soonest time possible and he'll pay for everything and i dont need to spend a single cent. What do you think Fyldefolly? Should i go or not? I mean, I am not sure he is really a good man. What if i will be held captive or something dangerous will happen to me? I love him, but i dont really know him. Thats is something that's holding me back.

Indeed, men here in the Philippines are very respectful to women. As you know divorce is not allowed here. So basically that is my view about marriage. Even if he is a great man, i assume that I will face a lot of struggle coming into terms with our cultural differences. Hope you will not cease on giving advice to me. Thanks for everyone !

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