Hi Isis

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jun 5, 2009 at 01:01

Hi Isis, thank you very much for your response. Do you think that I should grab his offer to visit him in Egypt? I mean, this could be a nice way to know him and his family really deeper. Just scared, because I am a woman in a foreign country and I don't know anyone there? Just thinking some possible danger that might happen to me. I asked him to come here in the Philippines instead. You think that's far better? You know here in the Philippines, there is still social stigma about a woman visiting a man, kinda considered taboo and not lady like. Anyway, I am not concerned about this. Just thinking because he is the man, he should be the one visiting me, not me visiting him. what do you think about this?

And is there any way or government agency in Egypt to determine if the man is really single or married? There should be a way on accessing this information? Anyway, i love him this much and in some way, I am willing to let go some of my personal values and convictions for him. Regarding his absence? You think this is just his strategy, you the know, the push and pull method. They said, Egyptian men are notorious for this? Dunno if this is gossip or what? But you know, it's really working.

I am just keeping myself sane, by thinking that our relationship might not really work out in the first place. But I am happy. I just savour the heavenly feeling while it's there. :D

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