why,why,why...

Submitted by Margaret (Poland), Jun 8, 2009 at 04:36

I am 22 and he just turned 24 and I have been with him for a little over a year. When we met it was like fire and within a week I moved in with him. At first everything was perfect he couldn't wait to see me he would even wake me up before he would go to work just to kiss me. Then several months later he was still affectionate sometimes, but it was just not the same.

The very same trick again- only after you emotionnaly invested and became attached- he shows a little of his true colors...

After being together for 8 months he asked me to fly to morocco with him. I said I would go on the condition that he tells his family that we are together. He said he did. So we're supossed to take 3 flights and after thefirst flight I get really sick and can't get on the next plane. So he flies with his bitch ass moroccan wife (paper only they're both moroccan suposedly) leaving me at the airport.

Morrocans dont marry on "paper" only...He has Allah-given right to deny his wife food , shelter, beat her or even divorce her by just saying "talaq" three times...So dont believe that his wife is a "bitch ass"...It is a trick too- to bad-mouth the wife/ex-woman...not only it causes sympathy (poor- little teddy bear) but also shows him in a good light- he puts up with such a witch...so on...

the other Arab friend did a really nice thing- not only he warned you despite being HIS friend not yours, but he betrayed his muslim brother for the sake of infidel woman...

Why did you told your "boyfriend" about it? Dont you realise that because action like yours NOBODY will warn us anymore ?

Here on this very board I remember two posters convinced that if their lover was scammer/cheater somebody from his village/town would tell them...Now- everyone- do you know why they DO NOT warn us ?

Take care...
M.

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