hi Just_Me

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jun 9, 2009 at 01:45

Well, kinda feel a little jealous because you said you two still talk everyday. Maybe he really loves you. About my Egyptian man, 2 weeks already passed and no offline messages whatsoever. I dont know if this is really about work. I am starting to feel worried now. I mean, there are so many ways to keep in touch if he really wanted to. I feel, maybe he's just making excuses. I really dont know. They said, these men like to play the "push and pull strategy." Once you're emotionally invested, then they play hard-to-get? Or maybe they just became bored and move on with other girls. Just_Me, i wanna forget him, but i dont know how. I feel I am going crazy or something. But when I asked him, he assured me that he really loves me and he's just very busy. Is this some kind of game?

Anyway, you still talk you said. Does it mean, you already broken up? He knows that you could never be with him as his wife and the mother of his kids? When you talk, what is usually the topic? I told my man before, that I wanna stop our relationship and he became so upset and asked me if I love someone else? I dont wanna lose you, he constantly say. That's what i feel too. I just want him to be a part of my life. He said, he will not be so jealous and let me do things I want. But like what you said, it doesnt really happen that way. Just_Me, how did you come up with the final decision about your relationship and your love for him? It must been hard. As for me, I am struggling to forget him and move on with my life. I just dont know how :(

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