Luigi and all

Submitted by Debs (United States), Jun 11, 2009 at 04:51

Hi I love this website, it makes me think about things I probably try to avoid, so thank you all for stopping me running away from reality.

I will say yes I have fallen more and more for him and the time we spend together was lovely but I am not silly I know this is not a full time relationship where we see each other everyday, in reality until that happens who knows how it would be. I have always said that I would walk away and take it away as a life experience if things became bad and I still stand to this, this were going great until about 3 weeks ago where I have notice changes more. I have since my last post spoken to him and been completley firm about stuff and told him what I think, it was a shock for him as I did not mince my words I was blunt and frank. So as it stands right now I have said I want us both to have time to think about our future. I did say to him it seems its run the course and we are drifting but be assures me that he loves me and there no one else. Time and actions will prove this, I have said to him your words count for very little right now. He now wants to move his trip forward to come to the UK to see me, lets see if it happens I would like him to come even if it turns out we stay friends.

I will not walk totally away right now, but I am taking a step back. As for marriage that will not happen for a while I am in no rush for this, and I am not getting pressure from him, he says when I am ready, which if there is no improvement will not happen.

So lets see what happens I have become stronger and I am not a fool.

To you all thanks I will take every bit of advice on board.

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