to Amber-Rose and Just me

Submitted by Stephanie (United States), Jun 11, 2009 at 11:14

The man I was seeing always said just command me...or called me his Queen...and would say whatever you command I will do. He also wasn't like the rest I knew. He never asked at first to open my cam very much and then later...he was more open about it. I think it's an Egyptian thing and as cute and nice as it seems at first, watch out. Up until a month and a half ago the man I knew was calling every day staying he loved me and he couldn't live without me. Wow he sounded sincere and it just makes you melt doesn't it? Then I found out he was the hugest liar in the world. He lied to me the last two years of my life about everything. Easiest thing for you can do is ask a friend who is relatively pretty to flirt with him, have her change her ip address to some other state. He might be really intelligent enough to check it lol...and see if he flirts back. Let her do this with him for a while and see where it leads. I know it's crazy but as endearing as I thought mine was I was in total disbelief at what he was capable of.

The thing is, if you show you doubt his sincerety and another woman comes along and gives him attention, if it's for a green card he will contemplate it and think of it as an option if he thinks he's failing with you. I can tell you Almost every Egyptian, Morrocan and man from Turkey I meet will tell me right off I am beautiful....and they want to see the cam...then some will say they love me right away when they see me while others will beg me to open the cam again once I have closed it. Before it was all flattering lol but now I think they are all just out on a mission. I do have a good friend from Egypt and I trust him.

If you know the person who you are close with for like four or five years and he's always easy going, laid back and can discuss everything with you without reservations...(meaning agree to disagree but not to get angry) and has never been mean to you a day in your life, lashed out and blame you for his own problems, made you to feel inferior...because you are a woman then you basically know it is his real nature. This person I know is only a friend but I can talk about anything and he is very open in all subjects. The other man I cared for was the kindest at first also and also open to a degree but not as carefree as my friend. He also asked me right off once we got close to not have any other male friends, to delete them... but after two years he totally changed.

Also, i didn't know him at all over the internet. When actually was around him I didn't like who he was. It is a big difference, internet and person. The last two years of our relationship, he made me feel guilty for any problems he faced blaming them on me. He hid the world from me and I was shocked when I found out all that he had been doing. I know you are new in these new relationships but take heed. It won't be cute when you are one of these hurt women.

Read this site...those men usually don't show their true colors until they get tired of waiting for you to give them what they want, sex, money, a greencard in most cases and they just move on to another woman or once they have all they want from you ...after much mistreatment...then they move on. Just take care.

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