Luigi

Submitted by Lisa (United States), Jun 12, 2009 at 09:42

My relationship has nothing to do with Margaret.. Believe me, Maragret does not control if I have a good marriage or not,lol....margaret simply writes things not exactly related to Morocco or all of its origins or the men. She attacks all of this culture and it is evident she does not like their culture or the men. It is clear she would be considered racists against this culture for many reasons and one being their religion is not the same as hers. Also she should not be attacking me or my husband with her silly insinuations or slander all of this culture of men...and she should expect to be corrected by ones she attacks, so I am not attacking margaret but she has me and I didn't see you posting in my defense when I have seen actual birth certificates of all his sisters but how many times have you seen her post his sister is his wife and over and over again she she makes this same statement to everyone..........she just needs to quit stretching the facts .... It doesn't matter what Lina wrote about Moroccans being abusive. Again, doesn't mean all these men are abusive cause Lina might have witnessed an incident or two...again, these men are human just like americans or any red blooded man. Its depends on an individual's character and personality how they interact with another person if they choose to hit their woman or kids. If they are abusive during your relationship and controlling, expect them not to change once married. Ladies simply stay away from this type of man no matter of the culture. Its in all cultures plain and simple and you need to be smart... Luigi it is also my perogative to defend whatever I see is wrong in my opinion or what Maragret choices to write that is based on false grounds especially concerning accusations about my husband she knows absolutely nothing about. If you don't like what I have to say or me defending some of these preople, too bad. They are my family and I respect them. There are many good men and women there and I don't appreciate being attacked by margaret with her same ole' falsely accused statements.

I did not say the quaran did not say its ok to beat your wife and yes if last resort...but maragret has a tendacy to overexagerate and make it sound like all these men will do this cause its not true just like not all will take 2 or 4 wives....again a choice....She tries to scare people instead of just stating what could happen if you meet an abusive controlling man and not all these men have these qualities. Some are very caring and lovable and I am saying this based on many friends young and old I met of my husbands and how they talked nothing but good about their wife and family and had good characteristics and morals...and at least two was in love with women from other countries Spain and UK and it was evident they truly loved these women and it wasn't about a visa....I just hate seeing people who post stay away from these men when some are good and its just not fair to the sincere ones. Sorry if you don't like what I have to say, but i will say my peace as long as it gets posted..and I too post according to my experiences and not what I read on the net....If i would have listened to what all I read on this board or net and believed it, my throat would be cut, Beaten, spit on, sold as sex slave, drugged, hated on,....you name it,lol and its simply not the case

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