we'll get through all this pauline!

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jun 12, 2009 at 13:07

Hi Pauline

sorry for the late reply but I am dog sitting at the moment at my daughters and come home to read on this site, it keeps me going.

Well I hope you are bearing up and not falling for any more sweet words from your new fella! We must have been mad to have taken in those very familiar words ha! I have spoken to an Egyptian guy on line recently who told me he loved me after two conversations!! well I know just how they work now and yes its all the same cr**p, "I miss you, i'm worried about you because you have not been on line!! "

I, like you wanted to see what he said and OMG its like the same record. I really wished I'd had read all about their ways before I got taken in, I had no idea, really ,I was so naive. Anyway this one is more direct in what he wants and thats to come to England forever, can I help him!! he will love me forever if I do this!!! can you beleive the audacity of these men? Mine at least was trying in his own subtle way but still failed as I found out what a crap liar and thief he was. I told this one straight and he said I made him very sad and thanks! do they really expect us to do this for them its unbelievable!

You ask if I would meet another Egyptian ? well certainly not in the tourist industry who are poor and certainly not on line for long term relationship. How can you trust these men in tourism?, theyr'e around women every day and I know for a fact a high percentage of them are not faithful. They do have it good, most are married and have flings with orfi marriages, they have no concience at all. Perhaps a well educated richer Egyptian man who has no need to use you, then you wouldn't be so suspicious lol. I'm not saying all poor Egyptians are bad but the ones in tourism I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw! not now.

I still have him in my heart though i really don't know why, they have a way with us don't they? I still shed tears quite often and can't forget, the memories are still there even though it wasn't real. Thats what they do, work on us to fall for them, people say its a hard struggle for them as they need to keep trying but heck! they are having so much fun having all these women! and then probably landing one thats gives them what they want. Pauline we will be ok, we have saved ourselves more heartache than if we had gotten in deeper, they would of fleeced us thats for sure! lets try and give ourselves the credit we deserve in getting out as the hurt would of been destroying far more than it is now. yours like mine is on line every night til early hours, but i have deleted him so I can't see him anymore, I thinks thats best. Are you still talking to your new Egyptian?

keep strong x

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