To Amber Rose and others:

Submitted by ANONYMOUSXXXXXX (United States), Jun 14, 2009 at 13:29

The sad truth is you can't change these guys. They are what they are, just like we are what we are. I am very educated, smart, attractive, but older. The truth is, if they are poor, nobody in their country wants them cuz the women want a guy with money. So, being poor, they grub for more over here. They thought life was gonna be easy and face it, it is easier there. Just find some food, room with a friend, chat at coffee cafes, wife works at home--how bad can that be?

Mine actually had the audacity last night to say he sees how women look at him and think he's cute. Geeze, give me a freakin break. I said, so go find one, Pretty outside, ugly heart. He actually is mad cuz I said I won't make his car payments. I told him nobody paid for mine. He is downright jealous. I tell him I have worked more than 40 years for what I have. He expects me to cash in retirement money to pay for his car. NOT gonna happen.

Sadly, true character comes out. They are masters at making you feel guilty and feel like you are walking on eggshells. You will ask yourself if you are ugly, or a b****. I know I am a good woman and God knows that.

Look at everything carefully. He was not a moocher before he got here, but there is some strange sense of entitlement--don't know. My guess is if he stays, he would take my money when I die, go buy house back in Morocco, and marry young woman. I even think he should go back and live there now so he can be happy--or as happy as he can be. He is basically a jealous, hateful man who doesn't want to work too hard for what he wants. BUT he doesn't mind me busting my butt. Now I can't get him out of the house. AND to top it all off, he has big anger issues. Never dealt with this much crap in my entire life. I know my health is affected by this stress. But we are strong women and we will make it--that is what they hate. That they can't break us...how sad, isn't it?

More to come...

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