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Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Jun 16, 2009 at 20:30

By all means warn this woman so that at least one other woman doesn't fall victim to this rat. And that's all he is. if you don't warn her, she may lose everything and suffer for years afterwards.

In helping other women, you'll find the anger lessen and the recovery will come more quickly.

As for sex during Ramadan, the guy was lying. They are allowed to have sex between sundown and sunrise. I'm thinking he had to be with a wife or another woman during that month.

Re: "he even had the nerve to use some Spanish words I taught him with other women" ...they have no conscience. They just use women with no remorse. I got my husband an interview with a big company in Turkey through my teaching contacts - it was his big career break. Before going to the interview, i took a photo of him dressed in his suit. So much hope for his future in my heart that day. He used that photo for one of his online dating profiles i discovered later. And that is what they are like to a tee - completely without conscience.

Don't wait for any apology - you're deluding yourself. They don't care AT ALL - we are NOTHING to them. That simple. Tell the woman about him then don't waste a second more of your one life thinking about him. Count it as a lesson learned.

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