To Gina: Advice on this blog

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jun 19, 2009 at 18:07

Gina:

I appreciate your question and contribution, but I have been asking people why they post on here long before FydleFolly has.

The reason is very simple, and you can tell us why, or take it as a rhetorical question, I don't care.

But when you act all defensive on the internet to a stranger about your relationship, it really makes me wonder if you trust the man you are with and if it is for real. I've seen the exact outlashing before on both facebook and myspace and the return rate on said public complaining is 100%.

Also, Gina, let's be honest here: The reason why people post anything on the internet is others will read it.

You are more than welcome to post whatever you like, but just keep in that I...well, we, actually, have seen people ask questions about something and then get all closely guarded about their relationship. If you were truly secure about it, I don't think you would even care what someone else says, even more importantly, someone (FyldeFolly) that you don't even seem to know.

You see, Gina, other Muslim couples don't care what gets posted on here because they are too busy enjoying themselves and could care less.

Since you are on here, Gina, I think you really need to ask yourself why you are searching for stuff like this on the internet.

All in all, most posters, including myself, don't want to see you get screwed. We want you to learn from our mistakes.

Gina, the fact that you use your real name.....it really does not mean much on here if you or don't. I don't care. I don't think anyone pays much attention to that.

If you do have concerns about your relationship, feel free to share them. No one's going to point the finger and laugh, and the solidarity on here will probably surprise you.

-Luigi

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