Response to Luigi's uncalled for NONESENSE

Submitted by Lisa (United States), Jun 20, 2009 at 03:42

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi, Jun 18, 2009 21:12

I should known better than to think that you would actually reply tactfully. Then again, you were more worried about Simo than your daughter when she was sick, so I guess I should not be surprised.

how CHILDISH even for you Luigi that you feel you have to resort to posting something like this for everyone to read to feel you have an UPPERHAND on me? Well if it makes you feel better go ahead but for the readers to know when I took savanna to the Dr with her on-going problem of about 2 years, the Dr did an MRI and said do not cancel my non-refundable $1400 flight and we ordered a MRI which revealed nothing....Simo and i both agreed she was more important and it was even posted here! go back and read in archives!! Simo even stated that he did not want savanna to think he was more important by me coming so we waited for some tests and all blood work for thyroid, diabetes, her electrolites and all were good...I took her to ER, etc....they say GROWING PAINS and ACCUTE MUSCLE SPASMS....You make comments about me but you are one who thinks you have to attack me and my relationships at all expense, but hey go ahead because it will not make me or break me,lol.

(Luigi says;)You've been brainwashed into thinking that Moroccan culture is superior and you now hate men from other countries simply because one American guy hurt you. That's what all this bickering is about and it's why you even married Simo, isn't it?

First of all, I have never stated i hated ANY american man or any culture of men from any Country! I have NEVER said Moroccan Culture is superior to any other not even my own...But I did have a choice of who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I didn't care where he was from or what religion.....i looked inside this man's heart and all I see is good in him.....Im married to him and he still has not accepted any money from me and its been well over 16 months now. He just worked with and headed up a political party in his city and helped the man to win president of his city and starred in a Lebanese/ arabic movie with an acting/speaking parts so he erans his own money to take care of himself and he would feel bad to take money from me and as I have stated here before in archives he threatened to end our relationship early on if I ever even offered to send him money again ...also I have been home now for two months and he has not pressured me or even asked when I will file our immigration papers. He knows I will when I can afford to do so. i have had two cars to break down within 3 weeks of owning from same car lot and am having to deal with these issues before filing. He is very patient in many subjects with me.....i am the hard headed one...he is the calm one.

guess what..he still doesn't asks and knows I will do so when i can afford too. He loves me and is extremely patient with me....Bikering? Whose bickering? hhmmmm........I didn't marry Simo because I was lonely or desperate. I had many offers. I been told by many I am an attractive woman....have all my life so i am stating this not to be conceited by no means but to state he was not ever considered "an only option for me" and another thing, I had 4 years to get over my ex-husband's affair and I don't hate him or his mistress...he comes here on my premises to visit his kids and Simo and I am usually in webcam visits when he is here....Simo knows I am trustworthy and I also know my husband in Morocco is as well. I never have to worry with him....His character is different from my ex.....my ex was an alcoholic as i have stated...Simo doesn't drink nor hangs out with some friends that do. He will not go to bars with them. When I call he answers hello babbyyyy and tells me in front of anyone that he loves me and sends me a kiss muaaahhh doesn't matter if he is on set of movie in meetings, on street with friends in coffee etc. Anytime I have called he has answered and is always happy to hear my voice and let me know to call anytime is ok cause "I am his wife"...so don't act like i fell for my husband out of lonely desperation or anger. (4 years is long time to move on with life and i was entitled to do so)

(Luigi says) Oh, certainly! All those who dare to oppose the mighty Moroccan culture are racists!!! Um, what race is Moroccan again, because you see, Lisa, under the current classification, it's predominately Caucasian. racists can be judgemental not just toward skin colors luigi....I was referring to these men being different and people being scared of the unknown and racists more toward the religion and background differences.......and Yes, my husbnad is whiter skin....not much Melanin you always describe these men.

(Luigi says") It's not slander, and how was that post even directed at your specific situation?? Did Simo read it and start crying or something?actually he is more mature than you and don't feel the need to sit and play Hero to unknown women on a blog who half the time cry here and then even knowing they are being used still seem to take the man back and could care less they are going bankrupt.

but she has me and I didn't see you posting in my defense when I have seen actual birth certificates of all his sisters but how many times have you seen her post his sister is his wife and over and over again she she makes this same statement to everyone......

(luigi says:) LOL....wow, you expect me to defend your man's culture and your "marriage"! no, i could care less of your opinion and i sure don't need your support of me or my marriage but i was pointing this statement out cause you directed your post to me and asked why i was attacking margaret when actually I was stating my opions back to her for stepping in on things she doesn';t know to be fact and i am entitled to do so and i don't need your approval of this as well...hahaha

Luigi says; Lisa, let me be very clear:

1) If you converted from Christianity to Islam, I do NOT support that at all. Have fun explaining that to Jesus on Judgement Day....oh, well, you see, it's just that this man was so handsome... reply; first off its none of your business and second-FREEDOM OF RELIGION.........but to answer, No I have not and will I? Probably yes cause I have not went to church since i was in about 3rd grade so I am not a Devout Christian and Jesus....I hate to say no one really knows about Jesus any more other than he was a great prophet before prophet Mohammed in Islam...even scholors here in USA now think differently about the history of Jesus and also, didn't your Jesus and God say not to judge what other's fate would be? But being so devout chritian you claim to be, you are here doing so,LOL. Doesn't make you any better. You are here on this board breaking many of sins...Your Jesus and God would not be proud of you...but you are so Holy Than Thou?

2) You may have convinced others, like Isis and Lina previously, and Linda (USA) that is real by posting links to myspace and writing long, incoherent, angry, tiresome essays about how wonderful your man is, but the difference is, Lisa, I see through all that nonsense ...My man is wonderful and I am sorry it dissappoints you to no end that i am not here whining with others about him so you can be my HERO TOO

3) Despite the fact that you are married, Lisa, I don't think you truly love Simo or trust him. I would gather he feels the same about you and your children. well Luigi sorry to dissappoint you again...i love my husband as much as my kids and as far as trust...I trust him more than my kids father and he is in my will already without him knowing having equal parts to my 401k, insurance benefits, etc and this is if I die before him.....we never know who goes first..... I will trust him to take care of my kids and be there for them cause i know my husband...so post all your rantings you want if it makes you feel better

4) Birth certificates mean NOTHING. nada. zip. And I suppose they were all translated in English just for you? Or do you know the language in Morocco now?? ........Really now Luigi? Our birth certificates mean nada Zip as well? they have birth certificates just like us and records filed and yes i have learned some writings and way dates are written and some of the language. So Yes to all your answers...I have a Moroccan tutor in my hometown.

(Luigi says )And no one said your husband was abusive........when I read over and over ALL THESE MEN ARE ABUSIVE...i have a right to say otherwise when EVERY MAN IS NOT

My marriage is not fake and there are no trust factors and i don't care that you feel you need to post otherwise...we both know what is in our hearts and we know we trust each other to always do the right things and we treat each other the way we want to be treated and I read this board when I can and have a right to defend your rantings toward me......if you don' t want me here quit trying to start crap cause you get bored and have no new posts or women to save. If I see the truth not told, I can post here and i have a right too cause when a poster say ALL THESE MOROCCAN MEN...it relates to my husband being lumped in that same mold too which is not true...many good people in Morocco.

Luigi says; No, she's not scaring anyone, and if you are scared, it tells me in volumes you don't trust your man---much less than I originally suspected.....quit twisting what is posted....i said she tries to scare new women here seeking their ways of life and in learning mode by twisting things out of proportion and adding to it in HOPES of SCARING the women...and actually I was never scared of my husband or his country and even on my first flight there back in Nov I NEVER felt uncomfortable in my surroundings or had a scared or trust issue cause i knew I was safe with him and he would guide me and protect me....I have already touched on the trust issue and you are dead wrong concerning our trust for one another.

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