Sweet Angela...

Submitted by ANONYMOUSXXXXXX (United States), Jun 22, 2009 at 12:36

I hate to burst your bubble, but as they say, actions speak louder than words, and this guy is an a$$hole. If I stand back and look objectively (should have done that with my own self, but it is always easier to see it for others), this guy is obviously using you for a visa. He is treating you like crap. Look at what you are saying: he refuses your friendship but accepts others, talks when HE wants to, runs back when visa is mentioned. I would bet a million dollars he is trying to get somebody else over there to sleep with a try for visa.

Cut your losses, get the hell out before you spend all your money. You deserve a nice guy who treats you with respect. If I had it to do over, I would have never married my hubby. He has his good side, but culture differences, age, all these things are just so different. I will say it again: they do not know how to love you like American women want, they have never even seen their parents hug or kiss. To them, they are married, you should be happy. They honest to God don't understand why you even question their loyalty. But this guy, loser is written all over it.

Please get out while you can....Love to all and especially you

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