The same senario

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jun 22, 2009 at 17:57

Hi Gambling

before you get in too deep you need to think about this logically. How do you know he isn't after a visa? You are older like I was and yes they will tell you age is just a number, he knows you have money and have offered to pay for his trips to England already, this is his dream come true ,its what a lot of them strive for, .

He wont ask for money or anything just yet, he will be sweet with his words and wait until your'e emotionally involved, then they have a way to make you feel like you need to offer money for this or that. Later (unless you are showering him with gifts and money) he will ask to borrow money or want you to pay for various things, to help him. Its buisness for these young Egyptians, they plan their moves very well and are so convincing that when we fall in love we delude ourselves into thinking they are genuine and mine is different.

I was just like you 18 months ago, thinking wow !he was looking at me! he must like me! and feeling very very flattered that a gorgeous young Egyptian guy finds me attractive! they know just how to reel us in, you wait....... the I love you, missing you, you are beautiful, habbybti etc etc ........ he has a motive! don't get involved you will regret it big time. Sorry to be negative but its the same senario over and over again and it can't go anywhere.

save your heart and money all the best x

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