Are you 100% sure Amber?

Submitted by Innocence (France), Jun 23, 2009 at 06:30

I have been following with great interest this blog here for the last month and I am really happy to find it as I got some answers I was looking for :-)

I wrote already a small piece of my story and I decided to not keep my mouth shut . I want to say everything here and keep as active as possible. I do not want to see other women being victims any more!!!

Amber, I HOPE from my heart your guy to be honest!!! BUT......please please read carefully all the stories here. I think having a marriage proposal is something very serious event, exciting and yes we all can be happy with that.

But please calm down and think again and wait a bit and try to test him as more as you can .

I had marriage proposals from my Egyptian friend too and he was working all day long , he was extremely tired and busy like yours. I also spoke on cam to him while he was working and I also saw him tired too! He was disappeared for 2 or 3 weeks telling me that he was working a lot and no time to chat etc....

Well, ok , now think please. If someone who says that loves you madly, he is so inlove with you that can not even concentrate in his job ( this is what he was saying to me) , you are the only woman in his life etc etc....well, just going to bed in the night he can't come online for even few seconds and leave a sweet message to you or saying something at least to show you that he is ok and NOT dead?

I think an honest guy who is really in love with a woman can always find few seconds for her right?

And what about all these similarities we all have seen to our guys? They are all disappeared, they appear out of the blue, they say " I love you & I want to marry you" etc etc...?

Please Amber, I am sure You have been here because you are suspicious about him, not 100% sure right? How can you change your percentage of trust towards him within few days? When women get happily married to someone and they accept the marriage proposal they are 100% sure about their guy! Are you Amber? or ...you need a bit more time to make some more tests on him? Marriage is something very serious step we take in our life.

Please think again your answers to your guy and try not to show him that you are easy woman:-) If a man really loves you he fights hard to get you right? Try to be a bit more difficult and see how he reacts :-)

Hugs Amber, and honestly I really HOPE you have found a genuine guy :-)

Take Care & Becareful !

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