Doubts

Submitted by Jade (United States), Jun 24, 2009 at 10:56

Thanks Luigi, I stumbled onto this site by googling about marrying a muslim man. The only signs I see that may be he is using me for a visa is the quick to marrying ( in which I thought comes from their culture of not dating), I am a little older than he (not much), I am not divorced or have any children, he seems to be doing ok as for money, I don't have money. I am probably in the same boat as he financially (he never ask for money).

I think reading this site is making me look for signs. I am more aware of the game since I have been reading the comments. I have asked him questions over and over again and he seems to be telling the truth. I questioned about the interview because I remember reading a comment of a lady who said her husband lied to her about being approved and was here in the states all the time. She had to contact the U.S Embassy to find out why he was not approved when all the time he was, but did not come to her.

I believe this site has been helpful in what to look for, but I don't want to ruin it if he is for real with me, since I had already married him before finding this site. Only time will tell. I am not depending on the government to help me with info on this man. I just wanted to mention how they drilled him on his past marriages. The consulars seems to be very hard on them in Jordan.

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