To Luigi

Submitted by Lisa Usa (United States), Jun 26, 2009 at 10:10

Too funny Luigi,lol....Don't flatter yourself. I think if I see a post directed toward me by you, I have a right to respond to your ramblings. If I get frustrated, its your tone and attitude in your posts and i think I have every right ...

I came across this board like most here...searching for moroccan culture or typing in Moroccan man and like most women we all love to read gossip and people's relationship problems...its addictive and you want to see how one's relationship turned out and you may even like or dislike personalities of the unknown people here and i read lots that was taken out of context and commented on it and every since i have been labeled as defending Moroccans etc. I do not defend what these men have done to these women at all especially if they did not see it coming but some on here need to be wiser and love with eyes wide open and if you are getting that GUT feeling something is not right or your man is staying gone days or weeks at a time and popping back into your life or being caught in the act cheating it is a sure sign he is rotten to the core so move on....lesson learned.

We are all human and need to be treated as such....these men who have hurt these women on this blog will get what is coming to them and these women will be better and wiser for what they have been put through. Don't worry about me Luigi....believe me, my husband knows I am head strong and strong-willed and he knows I am not weak....and you should know by my posts that i am not one to back down.....

my husband has been good to me the past 17 months...he has good heart and character and stern too (like when i shut the car door too hard,lol and we both laugh about it now)so I have seen his worst side in moods but I can be moody too. The thing I love about my husband is he does not hold grudges. He forgets and forgives easily.... He never says anything negative about someone. Tomorrow is always a better day. He loves everyone and does not judge and even when someone judges him without knowing him, he has nothing negative to say. I like his character and who he is. He is himself and does not sugar coat anything.

He did not start out telling me he loved me or wanted a life with me...he also told me if I ever offered him money again, it would be the end of our relationship..it was months down the road that he said he liked me a lot but even with that we need to meet and see if we had that chemistry in real and he told me to see if we are attracted to one another and feel the same as in net. Neither of us is naive Luigi...we know we have obstacles in our way to keep this relationship together and because of his qualities and characteristics we both feel our marraige will last. He has patience and is loving and we both love one another very much so all I ask is respect us...you don't have to agree with our mixed relationship....

i have seen many who judge us and I am learning how cold and judgmental people can be and im not talking about ones on a board cause they are not real to me . We don't know how long we have on this earth, and we should make the best of it and life happily and treat others good. Don't you agree?

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