Dear Lisa

Submitted by Stephanie (United States), Jun 27, 2009 at 18:38

I have no idea who you are and I only have knowledge of you by all that is going on between you and Luigi. The truth is I understand your defense of your life and marriage especially when you are happy. You are definitely the minority here. Again this is just a site on experiences that people have to help others. As for you, we all hope and wish the best for you.

The majority on this site have had terrible experiences which show, even if someone might be nice, the internet is really the best place to meet your life partner and in a nutshell, anyone takes a huge chance not being able to know anyone's background who they meet, they take a huge chance all around. We all know there are good people everywhere, even just down the street who we can smile and laugh with 10 or more hours aday instead of sitting online in a virtual world.

Usually virtual reality just creates a curiosity in meeting someone in a complete different part of the world that is just another person.. They are everywhere. In your case I wish the best for you but only time will tell. In my case and alot of people on this site it just isn't worth all the sacrifices to find out the hard way especially when so many beautiful people exist just right under our noses. I myself appreciate this site and wish I had known about it sooner before I even considered the man I knew and I was offended that you called everyone on this site as whiny.

Most of these people lost money, had been treated with abuse and even as whores and even if the women are better for it, stronger as you say, I personally wouldn't conclude that someone raped, beaten or molested would be a better person for it later in life. We usually try to avoid those things at all cost and I consider what these women go through almost just as bad. . Anyway, I am sure you are a nice person and you were just angry with Luigi. I suppose when something horrible comes your way you will want a sympathetic ear someone will be there to listen to all your whines:) and you will be thankful

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