response to pauline/gift

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Jun 29, 2009 at 06:35

I had a smile at your blog it does in fact read quite amusingly - so if you read it back and perhaps see it as someone elses post you will just see how these guys will do anything to sweet talk you to keep you under their spell etc. . Whilst i went on my holiday to greece recently my guy would text me and phone me every evening and ask if i had spoken with anyone- i said of course not(lie ) how can you not speak with anyone on holiday??? How could i possibly go on holiday without him, why didnt i go to egypt etc, did i not love him, was i going to fall in love with another??? A

lso i was promised gifts for my family , a ring, a big wedding at christmas , which will not happen now , thank god but these things keep us thinking..........its like a dependance.....but then it can go too far like you nearly did with losing your husband , putting your him before your family , work, friends etc ... because when you think back ..what a game hes played......... you feel like nothing else matters and your in destructive mode .......I feel as though you have had a really rough time of this, like a few on here some of the stories are quite frightning, seriously threatening.. I have not come across this as yet in my guy, he still trying the guilt trip on me and the undying words of love routine, the fact he kisses my picture every day was in his last text. Bless him. I found out recently from another source of a certain amount of money he had received via someone last year..a large sum of money...? so wheres she i wonder, i havnt found any evidence with texts or calls, he doesnt go on internet or so he says, which i believe as it is so far for him to travel I do know that. Just think.....in a few years the looks will fade all their teeth will drop out because of the sweet stuff they eat, they all smoke like chimneys , mine use to wear his boxers back to front ha ha never told him tho.... didnt quite understand that one ..maybe he was gay... oops sorry ...but joking aside there are a lot more women that are going to be used and the sex side of it is getting out of control - The diseases, that can be spread etc.
You only have to go past the internet cafees in luxor to see a group of young men all laughing , joking , swapping phone numbers pictures, its seedy, its degrading, so the best thing is not let them have too much profile about you, pictures etc.. we have to protect our identity. Your guy was not a human being so treat him like the rat he is and shame the b.......d

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