They think we are thick!!!

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jun 29, 2009 at 17:08

Hi there again Pauline

all this takes the mick! He sounds just like mine, stays calm when u are angry with him, this isn't normal is it? no because they don't have the same emotion we have, they are playing games, it doesn't matter to them what the outcome is because we are not the only ones. They can find others to talk to quite easily hoping one will fulfil his dream whatever that may be. We are now aware of the how they operate, if we knew before we would never have entertained them, but its hard after getting emotionally involved, but!! we have cut the ties, painful as it is, its for the best. I long to see my man and spend time with him but i won't allow myself to respond to him anymore.

So he said he sent you gold? as if!! all their stories come out of a comic book!! I dont think for 1 minuite that he could have had a relationship with an older woman for 1 year, he has to be married so I think your'e right he IS probably married to her otherwise why would he even mention her? I found mine would totally ignore things I asked him if I was doubtful , and when I insisted he answer me he would act all innocent and say he didn't understand!! or tell a pack of lies in a most convincing manner, rrrr yes it does send you mad but these are their games, mind games which if we had carried on would of sent us insane!

Guess what! Now he keeps calling me on line and I have deleted him, I don't answer, he just leaves off line messages , he has nothing constructive to say at all, more mind games, this is after he admitted talking to another woman on net, so they are playing all their women. I bet he "loves her forever habbybti" blah blah. Are you getting over him? I still think of mine every day despite what he did, I long for the day when I think of something else, next I need to block his messages, why don't I ???!!! Sometimes I still think am I paranoid, did he have feelings? but if he did he would be here for me, so I need to continue to be strong. I have got wise to the stupid short messages from him which shows he cant be bothered. At one time he did make more effort but not now, I have been a fool but they are good, without doubt!

let me know if you here anything, xx

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