My Moroccan Man was GOOD! He was not bad as all the others say!

Submitted by tasha (United States), Jul 9, 2009 at 17:42

hi sweety. seems like your really confused. I would say to go with what you are feeling in ur heart and take a visit to Morocco. But I would not reccommend the marriage as soon as you got there. I would do a visit and then come home. If you are happy with his actions etc then you could go again and then do marriage. My source is I had relation with Moroccan Man for almost a year. In my experience, I had one of the best. He NEVER ask me for money, I believe he truly loved me, and he was truly sincere, and truly wanted marriage with me for all right reasons. But he was already in USA, and already had green card. He was the best I ever have had. Not sexually because we did not do that. As he is muslim, and I converted for my own reasons and not his, and it is not allowed. He even offered to send me money, he would buy tons and tons of phone cards for my prepaid cell to talk to him on. I loved him and I have to admit, i messed a good thing up bad. He never did anything wrong, It was all me. I was confused because I had just got divorced, and right before the wedding of me and the moroccan man, I left him. He cried so hard and I broke his heart. I realized I really loved him but then it was too late. He hates me now and I truly believe there has never been any man that loved me as he did. I read and hear so many bad things about muslim men, arabic men, and especially Moroccan Men, But I can't say I have ever had bad experience. The only thing wrong with him was maybe he loved me too much because I destroyed him. I regret this everyday of my life, and I hope in someday he will forgive me. He was a little controlling, but that is normal for them. He only showed me how he loved me and was protective over me. I liked it. But he never beat me, never talked mean to me, never did anything really , All he ever asked of me was to do good things like not smoke nor drink etc, and to obey the religion, and to obey him if he was trying to tell me something for my own good. There are so many Moroccan friends of his, and he hated them mostly but had to be around them because they worked together, and they would use american girls and talk badly of them, and laugh about it. They would call non virgin women in america, they call them bitches. I hate to hurt you because u seem nice, but if this man is asking u and asking u about money, then I would stop all contact with him. Just remember this, my moroccan man loved me and never asked me about money. NEVERR!!!!! And any man, be it american man or moroccan man, but any man that loves you will not ask for your money. It is ok if married, but he is refusing to wear a ring. Me and my moroccan man both wear a ring while planning to be married, we were so submissive to each others needs. He NEVER talked to another woman and expected the same from me. Like I said everything was truly perfect, I was only confused cause I had just got out of marriage. Anyways. I just wanted to tell u a few of my experiences, and I left my email address for anyone who would like any advice or help from me. Ok Take Care, and I truly hope things work out for the best for you. But just remember, I know it is hard for moroccans and I know how poor a lot of them are, but remember to tell him that if he loves u to stop asking for money because it is driving u away from him. And when u cut all the money off from him, then watch his actions to see if he is sincere about loving u. Because so many times, these man can use such good act. They truly are charmers, it is their nature. My answer is I was planning to marry moroccan man and NO I NEVER give him money, and NO he NEVER asked me about it!

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