I was hurt by a turrkish conartist

Submitted by lisa (United States), Jul 16, 2009 at 18:04

They are the most attentive and loving men in the beginning. They tell you all the same lines it seems from reading these blogs....there must be a book in turkey titled "How to win an american woman in to marriage for a GREEN CARD...

we dated 1 1/2 yrs we where together everyday he even lived with me for a while until we broke up ...we did that many times and i would always fall for the sweet i love you's and I was his heart and how I changed his life...well the wife and 2 daughters in turkey where a big reason we finally split i was feeling guilty after realizing he lied to me about being divorced and would use the kids as an excuse to talk to the wife all the time on the pc..saying how she will take his kids away but he doesent want to live in turkey and once he gets his kids here he will tell her off...blah blah blah...all lies

well i got a phone call from him telling me how he missed me and that he cant sleep that all he thinks about is me well stupid me who loves him started to belive it again....i said i would see him but that day i was looking up his face book to show a friend and saw he had 2 face book accounts one with our picture and one wife him and his wifes wedding photo.....I felt instanly sick to my stomach...all the warnings people gave me i choose to belive him ,,,,,,,well i finally saw the truth he claimed his daughter put that pic there come on she has his password i doubt it...anyway i told him i finally see him for what he is a lair and i didnt want to see him....within minutes he had me blocked on his face book and all his other accounts ..

.TELL ME IS THIS LOVE....NO IT IS A MAN WHO ALMOST HAD ME AGREEING TO MARRIAGE BUT WAS CAUGHT IN ALL HIS LIES......I COULDNT BE FOOLED ANYMORE SO HE HAS MOVED O TO THE NEXT SUCKER...I WAS USED FOR SEX AND COMPANTIONSHIP WITH THE FINAL MISSION BEING MARRIAGE FOR HIS GREEN CARD..WOMAN PLEASE READ THESE POSTS AND LOOK AT YOUR MEN...I TRIED TO RATIONALIZE ALL THE RED FLAGS CAUSE I LOVED HIM..no i am trying to pick the pieces of my broken heart and move on...somedays the pain is so unbearable i just want to give up......why do they hurt us so....good luck to all of you...

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