Amber Rose Yahoo Id

Submitted by Summer (United States), Jul 17, 2009 at 22:15

Hi Amber,

I've been back & forth with an Algerian who lives in my area for 9 months. He did indeed within the first 3 months change his number which i sorta questioned but didnt really question but I assume if I cussed himout or somethign he would too. I am knowledable of the religion and questioned him many times he swore he was not married. I indeed think he is and tried every angle to get him to admit it - but still denies it. But in Islam you can lie to a non muslim! He even told me months ago it was ok to lie if keeps peace - RED FLAG! I could never trust him. Reason I know is he often refers to "his Sister" but went on a long weekend and he called the sister everyday with a calling card - picked up the word children and a time. I tried to excuse myself but he said you want understand it anyway. Of which he called back the next day at the time. Even denied saying - what do you think? I am a... idiot?

Now i do know I myself dont call my brother everyday , particularly while on a long weekend huge Red Flag. Everytime I would finally quit calling him he would reappear being unbelieveably caring and fun. He went from calling twice a day to maybe every other to maybe 1-2 week and would not see me in person as often. Sometimes 10 days apart. Which drove me nuts - I do know a man who loves a woman makes time to see her at least call her(I think that is any man or person). In the beginning i got the royal treatment - thing is the man had his green card already. I was very intrigued with him and more so analyizing try to prove he was not bad and him beicause he wasmuslim he would not go against what his religion stood for because I have friends there are very devout.

I am Christian and religious and my man told me that is what he liked about me the conservative & modesty side of me but after 6 months he wanted me to be ...well trashy. but to many red flags that made me uncomfortable but I think he was just a bad man in general...He did tell me when discussing a friend of mines man inability to have sex he said "A man has to give woman Sex" if he wants to keep her hooked! That made my skin crawl - he ignores me then sweeps me with fake love and I was hook line and sinker...thats when I started thinking he was using some checklist - seriously some stuff he said was very scripted. I truely believe he was cheating on his wife in his country and another woman here. Just the on and off moodiness was driving me nuts. Now it took me this long to feel comfortable to realize this is not fun any more and he is using me. Just be careful and get to know him really well and keep your guard up.

Sad thing is we parted a few months ago and I was fine with being friends because I liked him and wish I would have left the fairy tale there - but next thing I know he pulled me in and now I just think he is scummy - More so cheating man syndrome. I've not seen him in a while and I slept much better. I am posting some questioneds for the forum here because it still bugs me! I just want to know the inside truth I think that is what keeps us hooked. the Abyss....lol

Be careful

Take Care

Summer

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