Question on moving home for good and marriage check - Q for anyone?

Submitted by Summer (United States), Jul 17, 2009 at 22:36

Why would the guy tell me he was going back home FOREVER in 2-5 years and would not come back? He is not the oldest son and was really poor dont get it? Any Idea? My Co worker said no one moves back to North Africa unless they are really Rich or have a good job lined up which is pretty rare. Is that true? It's over but just wonder why would he move back for good? I am pretty sure he had a family wouldnt he bring them here? Was this the excuse he used when we got on the subject of marriage to get him out of the discussion never mentioned me going with him? Maybe the wife allowed him a wife to get GC but never again? He mentioned moving in a few times which I never would due to my children - which by the way never wanted to meet.

Also said "how could I be married they took finger prints and check in his country when he applied for green card - I told him he was full of SH*& and it was more a criminal check- would US immigration check this curious I say no since on this blog people have found out afterwards? He also said he had not been home in 7 years = he didnt get green card until 2 years ago. he told me no wife would wait longer than a year? I assume the wife would if they are benefiting finacially and she can not get a divorce?

Thanks its over just curious I think i was catching him in lies - glad I am done - Sleeping much better! ladies no contact is the best way its hard but after the first week gets easier. I

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