lisa /

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Jul 18, 2009 at 15:13

My heart goes out to you - and im sure the other posters feel the same as i do - sickened by this...because you were in quite deep with this man.,many of us in these relationships , have been hurt, victimised, abused and beaten some have been hurt much deeper than others, i am what you would call a lucky one - although touched by heartache i was actually in control, and still feel that way..Although i do slip backwards from time to time.. .Please think positively , throw youself into anything that keeps your mind of this scum bag, to waste all this time on him is maybe enough already, but i know you will too and frow with your heartach, like many on here. Sometimes you slip back, then it opens up the wound again, stay strong , there are some wonderful ladies and men that have invaluable advice to help you see him for what he is. Whether the guys are from Morocco, tunisia, Turkey Egypt they all have similar intentions, similar motives, but since i have not been to Morocco or Turkey i am not sure of the cultural differences to Egypt. What upsets me is sometimes the wives are also victims in all this - and the children...Some are in on the game...Its just so so hard to find out who is decent ......I find it all too frustrating sometimes.. You deserve better - you deserve respect.. and he deserves a kick in the ....b....s

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