Thanks so much!!

Submitted by Pauline (United Kingdom), Jul 20, 2009 at 03:24

Bewildered you are such a comfort to me!! Thanks again for your message!! Yes you are exactly right, along with luigi! I feel better today, and i will more everyday, i have blocked and removed him from my msn, so i cant see him, even though he only went online for my benefit, when he was wanting to talk to me or get me to talk! Most of the time he stayed invisible or just blocked me when he was chatting to someone else! Yes i must stay strong and not reply to anything. Your right, i did reply just to hear what he would say, somehow wanting him to beg or feel good about him still wanting me? i dont know, it just makes me feel worse. My stress levels are so high when i talk with him, waiting for him to tell another lie.

But hes very good at glossing over the fights, and sweet talking me round, forgetting about all the other lies, and trys to get on with our love affair so calmly. He said we will be together in egypt in november, thats what we planned before all the lies, and still thinks i would still go? When i already told him that i was going away with a female friend somewhere else? Almost as though he never heard me? Lke everything was back on and our plans were still going ahead? I never said our relationship was back on, he just prusumed this? Untill i mentioned that i had met someone else, and then he changed, and suddenly that was his weapon. suddenly he said oh now i know why you dont want me lol!!! There is no man, and i dont want him because he s a liar!!! But to him hes using my new man as the reason i dont want him! Not that hes a lieing scumbag!!

Ive heard no more yet, and i really dont think i will again, the new man excuse has threatened his plans now. So i hope that will be the end of it!!! I really dont know to this day what he wanted from me, because he loves his job in dubai, and has money? i try and think it was sex? but he can get that in dubai quite easy? It was the marriage thing so maybe the visa? But why the visa if he is in dubai?? His name is TAMER HASSAN for any woman who may be talking to him now! I check this site just to see if anyone else is talking with him? It took a while before i was suspicious of him, before i felt the need to google egyptian men? I suppose there are many women who never find this site? Or think to google it!!!

All the best B, love Pauline, thankyou!!! We will keep in touch ok!!

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