Pauline Dear

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jul 21, 2009 at 23:00

Dear Pauline,

Hi, how are you? It's been a while. I saw your post and I admired your strength in standing your ground and deciding for your life. I know that it's not easy especially if you already started building your dreams with this man. I wish I would have that courage when time comes. Right now, I just can't do it. I love him very much and he hasn't showed things that would upset me.

That is why I am still continuing this relationship with him despite the warnings of concerned people on this blog. I am naïve indeed because I am in love. I still want to believe that we have a future together. Life is all about making mistakes and learning from it. I will probably experience heartaches from this Egyptian man but its far better than spend my life wondering what could have been.

Anyway you said: This id changing thing is a big con!! He's changing it to talk to other women without you knowing!!! Why else would he have so many ids?

From the beginning of our relationship he's always in the invisible mode. Never a time, had he gone online technically. So if he's talking to other women I still wouldn't know, either he's using his old ID or not.

Pauline, I am scared on where this relationship is heading. Anyway, I will still continue and discover for myself. Inshallah! Thank you very much.

Love,

Amber Rose

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