wow...

Submitted by LadyNaive (United States), Jul 22, 2009 at 18:03

I'm going kind of crazy reading all of these letters. I feel like I have been the biggest fool of all. I married a Turkish man two years ago. I met him like many of you have met your men in the internet. I have been to Turkey twice and have been trying to bring him since. The last time I was there I spent almost three months with him...and also spent lots of money.

He works at times but most of the time he doesnt have a job. The times I was there I paid late rent, late phone bills and electric bills, etc. We communicate via msn but ever since he was denied his visa he has changed. Now we are trying again but he is not the same..he hardly has any time for me and is always busy. He has friends in his house all the time and when he shows up in the internet is maybe for 10 minutes. I don't even want to post his name here or his screen names.

.I met him in Paltalk and ever since his denial is like he doesnt want to face people and doesnt go there anymore. He had told everyone he was coming to US. Also he told me not to listen to people in the internet because they were all jealous of us.

But after reading all these posts I feel my heart really played the fool's game on me. Several people told me he was using me to get to US and I didnt believe them. Others told me he does love me. And of course he tells me he is different. OMG..what kind of fool am I? If you guys knew everything I have done for this guy you would really think I'm the biggest idiot here. And deep inside I'm such an idiot I still believe he loves me.

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