I am confused

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jul 22, 2009 at 22:13

This morning, when I opened my yahoo messenger I received an offline message from him saying that he will change his yahoo ID again. But I'm confused because he said his previous ID will be used by his nephew. Why his nephew? I thought the previous one is intended for work alone. I am wondering now. And I replied to the offline message: Ok babe, just tell me your new ID. I love you. I am puzzled, but I maintained my calm.

When I opened my Skype, he was online. And then, he said hi. I asked him why his ID will be used by his 5 yr old nephew, Aser. He said, oh I am sorry not by my nephew but my niece, because someone stole her password. Does it mean his 3 yr old niece, Sama is chatting already? He said not the children of his sister, but the daughter of his uncle. Why? Why would he give her his yahoo ID? Why can't his niece create new one? I am really confused now. Then he said he wants to see me. So I said call me. I saw him for 3 sec and then his skype went offline suddenly. I don't know, but I feel his trying to lose my temper.

My theory is this: for the course of our 7 months relationship never had I quarreled or demanded anything from him, even on the 2 weeks period that he disappeared. I don't want to sound desperate for his attention because people wrote on this blog that they enjoyed receiving such reaction and I won't give him that. I have a feeling that he's trying to test me on reasons I don't know yet. Let see. I will not question him any further. When he gave that lame reason this morning I just accepted it as it is, though my head is full of tormenting questions.

He's playing mind games and I will make sure I will win. Thanks!

Love,

Amber Rose

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