Just a thought

Submitted by Vision (United States), Jul 23, 2009 at 00:43

OMG, what a great feeling! To be in love and to be loved.
It is a short sighted vision. I hope that you can see the big picture. I know it's always hard to let someone see or look beyond the trees in the forest. Especially if the forest is too crowded with bushes and obstructive trees. Feeling can change at an instant, but upbringing and culture are rooted on each pysche.

They might love you and only you now....this will not lasts because love within them is an agreement. If someday you will be unable to fufill their needs they will find someone who will and is willing to do so. Will they be content... human nature says No......

Happiness as you may see is already a mind game for them. You are just seeing it in their eyes the way they wanted you to believe. Happiness is controlled by culture and way of life. Will you be able to adjust and break your own upbringing? I know you have your own tolerance and capacity to take things/issues. You set limits up to how much you can take and how far would you go... I hope you are not bargaining how much ... nice the heaven is or hellish it could be. I hope the promise is as true as it is or is it just a hope...

Life is a risks as well as taking chances.... because you hope it's always better in the other side. The same way why gamblers gamble because they always hope that they will win in the end. Odds are it's not in their favor. I hope when you risks yours it's calculated and when you gamble it's because the game was pre planned the way you wanted. You are the one who design the game.

You might win now... but look beyond now ... marriage is not the finale of love. The every day way of life or mediocre things you do day to day that you may not even consider as OMG what a great feeling!

Just another perspective...

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