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Submitted by lani (United States), Jul 24, 2009 at 01:23

I can sympathize with you, but there are signs some of us tend to ignore. It is merely because we think they love us and vice-versa. Remember, we are so vulnerable to the loving words and their manner of showing us love that we may have not had or experienced. Have you thought for a minute that his visa may have been turned down because other women like yourself have applied for one before? What was the problem with the visa being refused? Of course , he has no use for you after being turned away for the visa.

I can imagine all the money you spent and all the things you did for him. I am sure , when you were doing all these things that a light came on many times. Like I said, we tend to ignore them and think it will all materialize. These men will drop you like you never existed in their life. Just take your losses and pray for a better life......you still have a chance. Let it be a good lesson for your life and how you trust and love others you think are genuine. Chin up girl and move on. Good luck to you.

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