comment for miki

Submitted by nicole (United States), Jul 24, 2009 at 05:14

hi, i am an american married to a tunisian. it's practically the same culture. minor differences between tunisian and egyptian men but not by much. the fact that you have been with this guy for what seems to be a long time and he's not committing to you, WAKE UP. i reverted to islam prior to meeting my husband. how ever seeing non muslim women get hurt time and time again certainly does cast a dark shadow over my religion. people do not tend to judge muslims for the religion itself and what it preaches they judge through media propoganda and corrupt people who call themselves muslims. what a pity.

to say that just because he is egyptian he would do this to you certainly isn't true. how ever majority of my friends are from arab/north african countries or middle eastern countries. i do not believe that he will marry you. i believe from the sounds of things that he's working to make enough money so that a. he can go home and get married or reunite with a wife that you know nothing about. or b. he's just not going to commit to you. the last thing you want in your life is to get aids because the guy cheats on you.

you do not want to continuously invest your time with this man and in the end still find out that he's not going to stay with you. what good will that get you? other then a deeper wounded heart because more time had passed by with you pining for the love you had hoped he would deliver. look i say this to you NOT to hurt you. i say these words to you because i have enough experience with friends that have traveled down your road multiple times only to get hurt in the end. you know the old saying why buy a cow when you get free milk?

majority of arab men do live by this motto. BOTH christian arab and muslim arab. how can you blind yourself into believing you're in love with some one who refuses to commit to you? then again loving eyes tend to see only when it's to late. i urge you to remember that love is a two way street. when you're in love with some one who doesn't love you back it's NOT love. it's INFATUATION. you sound as if you're in love with the idea of being in love and it's not healthy. the more you swallow his poop the more he's going to step on you. finally he will just toss you aside. i hope you wake up. and again i am not saying this to hurt you i just want you to move on with your life. GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. he's NO GOOD.

ok take care.

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