miki hi

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Jul 24, 2009 at 10:26

There are a few blogs, and posters on here recently having, or are in longer relationships. -and still going through suspicions and doubts , In my opinion and what springs to mind reading your post is he may have had someone else in the background. (my opinion only tho understand that) He may have lived with his family, but he may have been engaged or waiting to marry someone, or in the process of obtaining a green card etc because he kept you at arms length, although you met his family, they may have been in on this. Or, you may not have been the ideal choice as a wife, and he abided by being at home.

Some of the parents dont know what these guys get up to.Did you havethe orfi marriage to stay with him or not? If not, then this in itself would cause him perhaps to be distant. ? or was he coptic christian you didnt say or muslim? Because if muslim they seem to impose certain islamic rules and practices after a certain time., not at first but, are not content with you being who he met in the first place...you would need to adapt. I have noted that many relationships with these guys do not last long, but then again it depends on circumstance. There is always good and bad - you have had to put up with his behaviour, and im sure your not happy.

Please post and keep others informed and do help others see how these relationships break down. You may get a little comfort from helping other women -god bless.

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