Because they want to MARRY us!

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jul 25, 2009 at 20:38

CttW, I am not sure how old you are, but if you notice most of us are over 35 that are ensnared in these guys traps. We have successful careers, but we are LONELY. For whatever reason, in our town, the dating scene is filled w/the gut wrenching first meeting, the hope he calls again AFTER meeting. The guys that just want to go to bed with you. The guy that is 40 something, still living with mom.

It's a merry go round! O! and don't let me forget the perfect guy, the perfect first date, the perfect match, and he just ups and DISAPPEARS off the face of the EARTH!! And if you have tried internet dating American Style, you will get NO RESPONSE if you are over 37, not blonde, and a few extra pounds. You will think your profile is "hidden", you will write and rewrite your profile, thinking there must be some word that's turning men off. But no. Men want a model type. With no baggage. And that's not real.

Anyway...Suddenly some guy from Morocco,Egypt, or some Prince from Dubai wants to chat with you?? Who wouldn't be curious?? And that's how we are caught.It is so plain as the nose on our faces but we will NOT look in the mirror. THEY WANT GREEN CARD. THEY WANT TO IMPRESS THE NEIGHBORS WITH VISA. THEY WILL DIVORCE YOU, TAKE YOUR MONEY, TAKE YOUR GIFTS, AND AFTER 2 YEARS (req. in US) they will go BACK to their country and marry the young girl they had planned to before!!!!!!!!

If YOU sisters are serious about desert love, choose someone older, over 40 who is genuinely looking for love. Someone who probably is poor. Find a man who truly loves Islam, then he will not dare hurt your feelings. ANYONE still living at home at 30++ years is under the influence of his families wishes!! WAKE UP!! I have said so many times, there are Moroccans HERE, there are Egyptians HERE, try to date them. More than likely, it won't happen. Face life with your eyes WIDE OPEN. And don't be afraid at what you find. My love and hugs go to all who luv these people. I do. But there is an ulterior motive.

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