What?!

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Jul 25, 2009 at 23:08

Hi Miki! 4 yrs is a very long time and it's surprising that he did not learn to love you during those years? Personally I think it's a good thing that he never married you, probably because he knew he could never make you happy. Otherwise, he could just use you for God knows how long. I am just wondering on why he left you since you are an American and he also wanted to go to USA?

Maybe you really love him that much despite the fact that he's not an accomplished man and always coming up with a sad story about his family. If you have not given him any money, then you could have tested if he loves you for what you are and not on the money he could gain from you. When money is involved it could really add malice and suspicion to any relationship. Doubts will always be there … Being a dedicated and loyal woman that you are, I know you will meet a wonderful man deserving of your love. Take care and I will pray for you. Shalom!

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