re- new man

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jul 27, 2009 at 02:39

Hi Pauline

ha! we are a right pair yes, but we are coming through, we will look back one day and be proud that we were strong enough to get out. my guy has been trying to get me to talk to him on net although iv'e blocked him i still get messages popping up when he's on ine. He is so persistent, he tries for 2 or three nights then gives up and then after a few days or a week or so he pops up again with the same words, i miss my heart etc but no real conversation. Its as if thats all he knows what to say?

Well Pauline, i did type a message to him and tell him that I had a new man! he still came back with plz i want to see you on net, but i just signed out. I haven't heard since and hopefully he has gone now, although it is Friday and he has disappeared many times on a Friday for a week and I suspect his women come for holidays, lets see in 7 or 10 days if he pops up again! It just shows how they are decieveing their other lovers/wives. I think you will hear from him again, when he has time on is hands or when something is not going to plan.

Yes, when you think of all the time they spend in the net cafes, mine said he went there just for me and that was on late nights when i had not even arranged to see him, huh! so he goes in a taxi all the way to the net, pays for time there, logs in and hopes I will be there and talk to him huh! yeah right!! would anyone in their right mind do this? My they work hard at this buisness, sitting hours in the net cafes. But then if they have a goal and need money etc ??

We have spent a lot of time with them but they have invested a lot of time too but got no-where with us so its wasted time to them too. They have to keep all their women sweet for their gains and there are more women who are much more gullible than us Pauline at least we ended it. I know one woman in her 50,s who still thinks her Egyptian man of 29 loves her and she will accept to be a 2nd wife because she loves him and wants him to be happy. I wonder if he will still be around after she has helped him to be more financially settled?

Pauline, my phone is completley broke after I dropped it, it will not even turn on now and I had all photos and videos/ messages from him on there, I do believe things happen for a reason!! sometimes I would lay in bed at night and look at these but I can't now and in a way i'm glad, Gods way of protecting me and helping me to forget! I am feeling much more settled now, I feel I am healing slowly, let them get on with their scamming lives, shame on them, what gets me is that they don't feel they are in the wrong? Will allah forgive them because we are westerners? You keep strong Pauline you have done well to get away, we know it was all just a fairytale although it was nice at the time.

Keep us posted if you hear anything, hugs xx

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