Re thinking you're a fool

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Jul 28, 2009 at 16:37

Welcome to the "Ex-women of turkish men who didn't get the visa" club. Yes you were used for a visa. The exact same thing happened with my husband when he didn't get the visa to Canada. Total turn-around, no more sweet talk. The feeling you love him will fade. Start realising that you were in love with a mirage that he created to get the visa. Also realise that every single word or sweet moment, every kiss was planned with a visa in mind and then once this horrifying reality has sunk in, start asking how a woman could love someone who would use and then discard another human being. It's a quick cure for the hangover romantic image he planted in your mind and heart. read my posts. Is his name suleyman aydin by any chance ? Pic is on facebook Middle eastern love rats group.

Yes we were both fools, but if you let him be part of your life any longer then he has really made you a fool.

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