Unbelievable

Submitted by refreshing (United States), Aug 3, 2009 at 11:46

Hi Pauline,

I just got through reading all of ur posts and i cannot believe this about TAMER. First off i started talking to him about beginning to mid june of this year. he stated he is married and has two children...he showed me a pic of his wife and young daughter, and claimed he just had a baby boy born around beginning of july....he said it was a marriage by family and that he is seperated from her to work in dubai and that he does go back to see her but that he doe snot love her.

When we first started talking he immediatley talked about marriage and did nto stop talking about. I made it very clear to him that I had no intentions of marrying anyone and that he should reconsider marriage since he already has one wife and children! he said he was a construction engineer and actually sent photos of him on teh job site so i think that maybe he was not lying about that.

he has a yahho id and that is how i have talked to him.. i stopped talking to him about 2 or 3 weeks ago because he was too pushy about marriage and wanted sexual thing via yahoo and cam which i absolutely refused to give him. i did cam him but we never did anything more than just talk. Also, he has a site on netlog, that is how i met him...he changes it frequently and i also noticed he is in this site as well as msn and yahoo all the time....has shared many photos with me in which many he is seen wearing a wedding band....he also showed me many pics of him with his daughter....

i am sooooo srry to share this with u but i cannot believe that i actiually found u and this websire today...this is really blowing my mind.....dont worry though...I never had feelings for this man and I never suggested to him that we could have anything other than a friendly relationship...he was teh one who tried to make it it into a marriage issue right from teh beginning....I am so sorry that u had to go thu this heart ache but it sounds like u r on teh mend.

Good luck and I look forward to seeing ur response to this....BTW, he asked for my cell number almost immediately after i met him but i never gave it to him...and he gave me his immediately but i never used it. he also tried to get me to give him my home address becuase he was going to send me arabic perfume, but i would not give him my address!!!!!!

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