games

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Aug 5, 2009 at 03:54

Hi Lotte

i am sorry to hear of your experience, this seems like the same old record with most of them, like sweet words, full on to start with then disappearing for times, busy at work, not getting answers to questions, i'm sure now that they all learn from each other how to handle situations. They are good at mind games which send you insane with frustration and they don't stop, they persue you long after it ends, to see if they can still pull you in along with all their other conquests!

i have learned so much from my experience and reading all the familiar stories on here, its not until after that you realize just how dodgy they are, at the time love is blind and because they make you feel wanted and lavish all the attention on you, its hard to believe that our man is in the game too, also it becomes addictive and they know this and that is why they constantly give you this attention because they know you will miss it. They play with your mind with the disappearing and coming back, and because they come back with these ridiculous excuses we overlook them( not accept) but overlook them because we have true feelings and try to hang in there HOPING that they are genuine.

i realized that i would not be happy as these behavour patterns would not change, in fact i knew they would get worse, so is it worth all the heartache and uncerainty? NO!! Remember, you are better than this, find yourself a good man, he is not worth it.

put his name on here, anonymusly if you have to, someone may know him already!

look to the future without him xx

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