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Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Aug 13, 2009 at 18:35

Hi Jasmie

well, you never know, there might be a few of us on here that are talking to the same guy.Yours does sound just like mine only mine was always calm making me feel frustrated and angry most of the time, trying to play the innocent when he knew dam well what he was up to. I think they enjoy this reaction because like i have said before, if they cared it would be only natural for them to react to our anger and at least try to reassure us instead of sitting all naive like they dont understand a thing and trying to make us paranoid!! Although he made a fool of me part of me feels good to know I didn't give him money or get married which he wanted so badly and that he wasted all that time with me for nothing even if he did have others. I could see he was getting cheesed off waiting for me hence the reasons for me getting less messages and him disappearing so much. Since I have been strong and made a firm stand ignoring calls etc he has finally backed off and as time goes by I can see it was all like a addictive drug that made me feel so good( well at times) that although you knew it was bad for you, you could not help but feed that addiction.

Ladies I can tell you, you will not want to believe that they can betray you until you step back, follow your instincts and let time heal your pain, you will get over them and then you will see just how much crap we put up with because we wanted that dream so much. My confidence and focus in life is returning, he nearly destroyed that, thank god I made the right choice because its not worth it!!

Jasmine you will make new friends again, as they say when one door closes another opens and i'm sure you will be happy without all the previous crap and heartache

wishing you all the best xx

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