sherry, my heart goes out to you....

Submitted by Lisa Usa (United States), Aug 17, 2009 at 18:43

Sherry, why would you want this man? He has made it obvious he does not love you...only words...and is this going 3-4 weeks not seeing you what you want from a husband? Sounds like you gave him an ultimatum as well is only reason he gave you a ring but still he avoids you. He is chatting with other women and showing NUDE photos of himself...and you are AWARE of it, why accept this behaviour? You already know he is hiding things from you and you do not like how he treats you. You are not married and he does not treat you like someone who is actually in love with you. I know this may break your heart, but why accept this? He is e-mailing other women telling them he loves them too and you have seen the PROOF firsthand by reading his e-mails. All the signs are here he is using you for whatever reason so why you ask strangers here what you should do with your life? LEAVE him, He is not worth it....why should you have to BRIBE this man by leaving him to make him share his time with you or react to you by giving a ring but yet doesn't want to spend time with someone he loves??? Sherry, you are spying on this man trying to catch him cheating...so no trust on your part or his with his accusations....You argue...none of this will make a lasting marriage...Its bound to fail. I think all will tell you. I know this is not want you wanted to hear but you already answered your own questions, don't you think?....Lisa USA

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