re to wisam

Submitted by Sherry (United States), Aug 17, 2009 at 23:19

This site i guess is for women to express their experiences with muslim/arab men. I know basically alot men are alike no matter where they are from. Just like there proabably several site to express many kinds of feeling toward many races. Its a place for others to see if similar thing are happening. The muslim man, i cant say , i know all details, but i do know people from middle eastern countries are raised differently from other countries, we all have different views and idea and are raised in certain manners. The muslim man not saying all but some ive known and heard of feel superior to women...even here in usa it happens. But i strongly believe these men feel much differently in most cases toward american women or women who are not of there race and or religion. We here in american..meaning women..have more independence, and so on, sometimes not tolerating being bossed around nor told what to do , while u see your so called arab man, do and say as he pleases. All in all its a big world and in every relationship, im sure there are many differences....but i cant say i ever expereinced the stubbornness, and not calling when mad, and me always having to say im sorry or admit i was wrong, in order to make this work and yes u fall in love and will do almost anything to make it work, but eventually it will work itsself out or fall apart..it only depends on what u let them do ...and in my case, i try to keep hope , but beleive this in the long run if it continues to destory me...i will take another path to find happiness....thats why god gives u a heart..... if u listen to it...and your gut feelings...u will make the right decision for yourself...and thats slowly taking time for me...but im the type person when i had enough it will be enough..and i will turn my love off and it doesnt ever come back the same way. But i like the site , just to see if other people are having the same troubles...and or did they succeed and find happiness.

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