a fine example!

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Aug 20, 2009 at 02:45

Hi Hannah

I am sorry to hear of your story, it just shows what they are prepared to do to get what they want! Just think, you could of married him and had a life of hell if his true colurs hadn't shown when they did. How can anyone distinguish a good man from a bad one here? They act out their role very well indeed so women just have to sometimes take a risk, or weigh up is that risk worth taking? He may change again and want you back but knowing what you know now i doubt if it could work, i doubt if you now could ever trust him. The truth is ...you know you can't. Yes this was a lucky escape for you, i believe things happen for a reason and God is surely on your side Hannah, i'm sure you will go through much pain and it will hurt for a long time, but you will come out the other side a stronger better person, please don't let him sweet talk you back with other promises. If he changed for the worst now think of life with him! plz keep posted we are here to keep each other strong

wish you well x

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