Lisa Usa

Submitted by Sherry (United States), Aug 24, 2009 at 22:02

Yes i know some those things are true, but since the thing happened with the computer stuff He Changed his phone number and i deleted the account he was talking in and whether hes still doing it or not i dont know. I even told him do not get me a ring, unless u want that, but let him know i will have to move forward without him, because i have invested so much time already .....almost 4 years. We currently are moving this weekend, but he wont join me until after ramadam is over, because im not his wife..and as for being his wife, i wouldnt just do it until i seen and felt things have changed..and right now i dont feel it. But i want to give a chance to see , because people can change...and if not...i will just move on eventually.

Hes 41 im am 44 , we dont have kids , so thats a good thing. Its really had to understand some muslim men, and how what they feel matters , yet what their women and the feelings dont usually. I dont know what makes me put up with it really, i guess just being hopeful it will one day change and the love i feel for him.....thats why i am here...so i can see different relationship and the hardship people are going though.

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