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Submitted by LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL (Ireland), Aug 26, 2009 at 17:09

Dear Jasmine,

I have not written and post anything for so long time now maybe one year..I was so surprised how you read my so old postings and thanks so much that you gave me the time ti reply...I have even forgotten this site and it is nice to read some experiences similar or not.

The last year things have been changed...we are really structure and stable together...no seperate weekends..no time with friends...we do everything together and we are much happier.Comprimising is not the option in my man s life...I mean there is love and understanding but still 2 diferent houses....he has his place and i have my place but he always staying in mine...every single nite.No nite outs by him self...but...because i want commitment 100% after 8 years relationhsip on and off and because i have not taken the proper answers that i wanted from him...in regards kids and marriage...i decided to leave.I quit my job in UK,i saved some money as always i was independent...this is the way i have been raised...studies and work.I am an independent woman 38 now...a bit old but life goes on.I quit my job and in 2 months time i am moving back to italy...forever.I leave everything behind...my time came...maybe i needed the time to come because i wasnot ready before.I am leaving everything 14 years in UK and a man that i really loved and i was passionated about him,...but i want to make plans...i am tired to live the moment and to hear i love you and you are mine..I want to hear...a proper...words like:LET S MOVE together and let s have family with open mind...i never heard that...i heard....that let s have a family but with his rules...i am an educated person...and always i had the fear that this relationhsip will not succeed..Now it is my turn...i put a time frame 5 months ago....i organise all my life in regards to go back to my routes...and i have left 8 weeks to leave.I have even paid my one way ticket.I have arranged my cargo to collect my stuf..I am leaving and I am free...I love him...dying to say goodbye to him...but i needed to do that,...love needs sacrifices and not only words...the fact that he is man and 33 make him still storng and capable to have family wherever he feels like.I am 38 i have to catch my time but even if i will not have kids in my life because my clock is running fast....at least i want to be with someone who does not put rules and actually he is sharing life with me....day and nite...and not 2 doors apprtment...in case to have his freedom..maybe i was late to decide but now i have to catch my time and i am positive with my decisions..my family is waiting me with open hugs...i will miss uk my years here...my carreer my man with all the issues...but i know that i am doing the right thing.

I am going to read your postings a bit careful and I will come back to you regarding your life and i will tell you my opinion,.

Many Thanks and take care also:)

Life is Beautiful:)

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