well! doubts confirmed.

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Aug 31, 2009 at 18:45

Hi everyone

not been speaking to my egyptian guy for a while( and never will) even though he sends messages on net with i miss u my heart, love so much, only one woman for me!! right up to yesterday while he sits in the net hours on end, and as i say ,no proper conversation, he's better face to face with his acting.

just found his profile on dating site with him sending identical messages to many women! dated the months he was with me lol. just for curiosity went into his e.mails as he is still declaring his love? and wey hey! sent many e.mails to women saying same lovey dovey crap! and to families too, all from the tourist area where he works and where he met them all..... relentless!!!

i dont have any doubts about me being paranoid now, people say , why do u want confirmation when its staring you in the face? but although it hurts, the evidence is 100% complete closure. They have no feelings for you to put you through this heartache, their persistence is unbelieveable, but i'll never understand why because they have many others on the go?

i have finally blocked his messages, let him get on with it!! i have been ok lately keeping myself busy, this brought it all back to me and I realized how stupid I was wishing I had got rid a long time ago,but i'll be ok, getting there slowly. I feel at peace now in one way as these type of relationships drain everything out of you, especially when there is uncertainty in your mind. Ladies when your'e involved with these men , like me you won't want to admit anything is wrong because your'e swept up in the dream with a handsome exotic man making you feel like a million dollars, they control your emotions so well and its hard to pull away, look at me now, he's still in my head after months, but I can see now how he put on a good performance, how very stupid I was!! ladies if in doubt DONT!!!! thanks for listening , this blog is good therapy for me, and others hopefully

wish you all well

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