Stop any contact

Submitted by Life is Beautiful (Ireland), Sep 1, 2009 at 15:48

Dear Jasmine,

Maybe I am too assertive lately actually the last few years but I believe that you are wasting feelings,energy and mind by contact him or try to find out from curiosity what he is doing....right now or what he was doing while he was with you...you give him more power....let him completely alone and vice versa...be happy that you are FREE and even if all the words he told you are painful....I am telling you this person is not going to BE LUCKY in his life....because someone will have the same insticts as you to trust you...in the end of the day this guy will not find the true love...simply because he cannot be there and commit...Instead of trying to find evidence that you already have and you know....let him...completely....no communcation via msn no google to find what he is doing nothing..CONCENTRATE to yourself...love your self...find peace in you....after all this nightmare that you had so many years...and be alone ...Man will come to your life...as you had in the past you will have in the future...I am telling you...Life continues...it is not about Arab man...there are bastards everywhere...but we are responsible too...to be trapped also if we have some signs that we will be hurt...no point to play the victims..and this man is not that strong than you....ok?you are strong big time...but you discover it slowly slowly...

You do not need also to protect any other girl from his trap everyone is responsible for their actions...if I will date in my future a man via internet...(that I hate these virtual relationhsips I am an old school woman) I have to know that this man is open to orther woman and chatting it is obvious and 100% sure that he is not going to commit only with me in the chatting but he will be open to several kind and types of woman...

Sorry if I am sharp...and assertive with you...but better stop any kind of communication...and woman will save themselves from this man...no need for warnings....we are clever enough to know what it is right and it is wrong for us...

Definetely you will meet someone who deserve a lot...to your kindeness...I guarrantee that 100%

Take Care

Life is Beautiful

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